SexEdNotes ~ Breast Gallery |
Do You Know What Women's Breasts Actually Look Like? | |
Children of both sexes have basically
identical chests, as far as most people looking at them
understand, so little concern is involved with breasts until
something changes, attracting the attention of the girl or the
parent. One indication that a young woman has reached the age of
puberty, is her breasts begin to develop.
The first indication that breasts are
starting to develop is when you can feel small bumps or hard
pieces behind one or both nipples. Those bumps are what is known
as a "Breast Bud", and they are the little beginnings of much
more to come. Those are the first of the glandular tissues that
will develop over the next few years to form your breasts. This
can cause some concerns about cancer or other problems, but know
that they are normal if they form under your nipple and your
areola. They may be tender. Don't harm them or try to make them
"go away". They are the building blocks of your new breasts.
You may wonder just how large your breasts
will become. Or when they will be fully developed. No one can
tell you that answer, but if you talk with your biological
mother and your biological grandmothers (both of them), their
breast history will be good indicators of what your breasts will
become. Maybe. But there is a good chance that you will follow
through on a similar schedule of development and as far as what
size your breasts will become. But, that is still no guarantee.
There is a scale designed to help you to
know how far along your development that you may be. It is
called the Tanner Breast Development Scale, and it describes
breast development, from Stage One which describes a five
year-old child, to Stage Five, which is an adult woman's breast.
You can see how this scale works if you visit my website on
breasts at
www.BreastNotes.com . The actual article is
http://breastnotes.com/aware/aware-stages.htm
So, what if you want your breasts to be a
certain size, and they don't seem to be getting there when you
want them to? Sadly, you have very little control over those
issues. Yes, you can pay a lot of money to a doctor and have him
or her build you the size and shape of breasts that you want,
but they will not be yours. And they may change. And worse than
that, had you NOT surgically changed them, they MAY have turned
out to be exactly what you wanted, but just later on in life.
Wouldn't that be a bummer?
The best thing that anyone can advise you
to do is to live a 'normal' life and be patient. Wait for your
breasts to do what they want to do. And most important, learn to
accept what they turn out to be as a gift that will be right for
you. Don't do things that will cause your breasts to grow more
or less than they want to naturally grow. For instance:
The most important thing is for you to enjoy your body and enjoy your breasts. No one has any that are like them. They are like no other. And they are beautiful. If you have children and you breastfeed them, your breasts will get larger and provide for them, no matter how small they are now. No breast is too small to breastfeed a child. With instruction, all healthy breasts can support a child. Breasts do not store milk until feeding time... they make milk as fast as the child needs it. On the fly so to speak. Here's a shocker: men can breastfeed a child.
How can you know what you want your
breasts to look like? What SHOULD they look like? Perfect? What
does a perfect breast look like? I will give you a hint: It does
not look like the perfect breast of twenty years ago. And it is
not going to be like the perfect breast twenty years from now.
Why? Because "perfection" is very fickle. Fashions change, and
what someone likes today is not what everyone likes tomorrow.
And you cannot change your breasts to look like the "latest
fashion" every five years like you can change your kitchen
decor. You cannot afford to do that, and your breasts cannot
deal with that much change.
So, what is the answer? Well, why do you
not think that your breasts are perfect now? Too small? Are they
even through developing? You know your breasts continue to
change throughout your life, and if you are not at least
twenty-five years old, you may not even be through with your
puberty. Take some photos of your breasts and then do it again
in six months. Did your breasts change? I'll guarantee that they
will change.
Are they too large? Are you overweight?
Your breasts are two-thirds fatty tissue, so any extra weight
you gain MAY go straight to your breasts. If you gain weight so
your breasts will get larger, the excess fat MAY go to your
hips, so don't do that.
When you think of that 'perfect' breast,
what do you think of? Just how many breasts have you seen? I
will guarantee you that the average breast that you have seen is
NOT the average breast. It is the average breast that is on
display publicly. REAL WOMEN have real breasts. They are real
size. But because women do not show everyone their breasts, you
only see the ones that are extra large or are being paid to show
them, like actresses and strippers and porn stars.
So, where an you go to see real women with
real breasts? I collected 150 images from the internet, of women
of all ages, with breasts of all shapes and sizes. These women
are mostly nudists, so they are used to being nude regardless of
what they may look like to other people. You see, these women
accept their bodies and their breasts as their own, and are
proud of them. Most of these images are of women that seem to be
quite happy. They are not upset because their breasts are small
or large or not the same size. Nudists do not get nude so they
can see breasts and bodies. They are nude because they enjoy
theiir bodies and enjoy being in the sun and the breeze and
being comfortable. And other nudists do not see naked bodies...
they see happy people, and they enjoy being around them, because
they are happy. And I believe that any a couple of these images
are of women that have surgically altered their breasts. Most
all of them
are natural.
So, no matter what your breasts look like,
you will find several other women in this group that have
breasts that are just like yours. And you are not the largest...
or the smallest.
Look these images over... each one... and
see if she is happy with her life and her body and her breasts.
She is certainly not hiding them. She must be OK with them.
Don't you think that you can easily fit right in among them? You
look just like them.
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